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Dealing with the Norwegian state child-care system, Rana commune and a bad mom
So, I've been struggling to get more time with my kids, and went to trial in June to get something in place.The judge ordered that I visit the kids every 6th week, with supervision from the commune/state.
Both I and the kids mom wanted supervision, my main motivation for supervision has been, and is, actions that the kids mom has chosen to do, and still chooses to do.
So, long story short, the state department called BUF was supposed to setup supervision for the visits, but so far they have failed to do so. Before the trial I also seldomly got to visit the kids, and then a person from Rana commune was there to supervise.
The trial ended up in a verdict, and the verdict was legally in effect on the 1st of August, but the BUF state department was unable to provide supervision, and is also unable to provide supervision now the 12th of September.
Over a couple of weeks now I've tried to get Rana commune to provide a person that can supervise on the 12th of September, but they are unable to do so. They called me this morning and only wanted to give a verbal message that they could not provide someone. When I pressed on for a written message saying the same, they refused to provide that.
So today I sent the kids mom an email asking if we could be in a public place on Saturday for a couple of hours, but she refused to cooperate on that as well. So the state isn't doing what it should, the commune isn't doing what it could, and the kids mom isn't cooperating. I'd like to add that I emailed the kids mom on the 20th of August regarding getting Rana commune to provide supervision on the 12th of September.
I think that pretty much sums up the situtation, but would like to add that sharing confidential and/or untrue information has many and severe consequences.
[Permalink] [By morphex] [Family (Atom feed)] [07 Sep 12:53 Europe/Oslo]